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I have been doing so excellent at this that it entitles me to have a good laugh about it and write a couple of expert words. If you live in a happy relationship, it is not for you, if only with the purpose of sharing your experiences of what did work, of which I would love to hear.

Summarizing these mistakes and errors one can make when choosing a partner one wants to hook up with, will hopefully help a couple of people not to make them. Because I can assure you, they don't work - these are either my personal experiences (here you go, if you ever wanted a peek into Andrea Gerak's personal life), either stories I have seen in my immediate environment.

As I am an artist and many of my friends are artists, most of these examples will be from this area, but these mistakes or horrible errors are made daily by any other people as well, if you look around...  

So here you have Mistake #1:

1. Different communication levels

How well can you communicate with each other? What are the subjects you can talk about? How well do you understand each other? Do your intellectual levels (IQ) match (meaning: are they similar, and not "opposites attract"...)? 

Let's say you are a spiritually aware writer and you write deep philosophical thoughts about life. You get involved in conversation with your readers, you inspire them to express their views on the matter, some of them even come up with long essays, and with their thoughts you get more ideas to write about, etc.

And here's your girl you are about to marry, because she is so goddamn beautiful and just incredibly sexy and cute: her only comments about your high thoughts are "you are so right, as always, xoxo", "awww, I love you baby!" - if she can say a word at all... and on the videos she is posting on her MySpace, Facebook or what have you, she is doing nothing but giggling like a 13 year old, with chewing gum in her mouth...

Sure she is the most beautiful and sexiest babe there is on the market, but after the first times of thrill are gone, you will have an awful time with this chick. Probably you have heard about misunderstood artists.

Well, who should understand you the best, if not the partner of your life, your soulmate?

If it's enough for you to have a sexy babe with such qualities and you are not looking for a woman who does understand all your high thoughts, good luck man! You are heading for real stormy weathers.

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